Your solution, your product, your skill, or your knowledge has no inherent value. Value is derived from the problem solved or the result attained.

I've had some value discussions this week but none of them were framed as such. One was about being asked for favors from good-for-nothing relatives, one was about closing off a service overused by deadbeat prospects, and one was about the lack of negotiating by the employer for a new employee. What all of these had in common was the focus on how it was almost offensive how little value these audiences held the solution, product, skills, or knowledge of my esteemed colleagues.
To my ears, on the other hand, each story is an example of the freeloading party's lack of problem or need for the result of the transaction. As I've said before, the value you're looking for is hiding in the problem being solved or result being attained.
You don't "create" value
It's a liberating thought. Knowing that the value of your solution is not in your possession, but actually resides with someone else changes the game. Instead of being hell-bent on proclaiming your value to another, you can be hell-bent on understanding how much the result will mean to them once attained, or just how deep their problem in.
Think of it this way, imagine I show up at your office wheeling in a snowblower. It's not just any snowblower, this one is powered by solar with batteries that hold their charge for months at a time, even on cloudy days. It can dust off sidewalks, flagstone paths, grass paths, and pea gravel porches without making a mess. Once you show it around the property, it's AI powered brain senses the weather and operates independently for the entire winter. It's pet safe, environmentally friendly, and goes looking for old people in a 1 mile radius to help. The best scientific minds in the world have been working on this for decades. It does everything.
You nod your head, smile, and say, "Greg, that's an amazing machine, but I live in a penthouse apartment in a high rise. And this is Phoenix."
You get my point, value does not derive from the product. The value of my futuristic snowblower to the person in Phoenix will pale in comparison to the value for the yuper living in Houghton, MI where the annual snowfall is 218 inches.
My advice to all of the parties is similar to one of the Stoic maxims in the first section, "Waste no more time arguing what value is. Go find it."
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