“What's that like?" – an expert communicator, to me

A new year's resolution on my list is to get back into networking, or networking with a purpose. When I help others with networking, I split the discussion into four parts:
- Where will it happen?
- What will we say?
- How will we transition to opportunity development?
- Follow up
To network more, pre-plan where and when it will happen. Look ahead, look back, do more of what you did and add some new activities in. If people in the roles we target are in attendance, even better. If we're not sure who will be there, we'll still go. People know people.
When it comes to being interesting while networking, be interested. The best thing for us to bring to networking isn't an elevator pitch, it's a list of questions. "Tell me about. . .," "What's challenging. . .," "What's that like. . ." are all good questions to keep people talking. Be curious.
For point three, in my experience, it's hard to do opportunity development while networking, so I don't. If I'm talking to a good prospect or someone who might know a good prospect, going into sales mode at the event is usually awkward. Have a transition. "This is interesting. I have a question. Would you be open to a visit at another time/place when I can ask you more about your business and tell you a little about mine?" is roughly what I say.
Then follow up! Most people I work with that attend trade shows, association events, and social events struggle with follow-up. Including me. The follow-up is where the magic happens! Give them a call, send them a note, get on their calendar. It's why we network in the first place.
I need to do a few more of these things in 2025. Just a few. I'm a work in progress. I don't want to over exert myself.
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