"That was a weird question."
Yesterday, I forwarded a message from my phone and right after I hit send it asked, "do you want to include all attachments?" I thought, hmm, that's a weird question. Turns out the attachments were other parts of the email conversation that I did NOT want to forward.
After 20 plus years of email experience, you'd think I was past the accidental forwarding of stuff, but my friend, you'd be wrong.
Teh experience reminds me of my biggest send/save experience back when networked PCs were the new thing. Our department was among the first to get them and we started exploring all the features. Background pictures, default sounds, and a little instant message tool WinPopup.

Since we were on the phone all day, the little WinPopup messages were terrific timesavers. Managers could listen to calls and pop up a "ask about X" message. You could organize a lunch event. And you could send insults and jokes. You just needed to know the computer or workgroup name you were sending it to. There was no thread, no conversation, just little messages that popped up, you read them, and then moved on. To respond you made a new Popup. Very clunky, very 90s.
One morning, I send a rant to a co-worker. A screed that rips my manager up one side and down the other over some perceived slight. It is cathartic. And funny. I pick a few choice physical details and personality quirks to spice it up, mention an illicit affair I think he is having, then send it along.
Then I wait. And wait. No confirmation. No reply. No piling on. Nothing.
I walk through our cubicle farm to my co-worker's station and stand there until he pulls his headset off one ear and looks at me. "Well?!?" I say. He just looks at me. "Well, what?"
My stomach falls into my shoes. Where did that message go? Which PC address did I sent it to? There's no way it went to. . .my boss?
I am frozen. Lead in my feet. But I know what I have to do. My parents taught me well. Better to get the poison out immediately. I trudge over to his desk, ready to be reamed. Maybe fired. Who knows?
He isn't there. I look at his PC and hit the spacebar to make the screensaver go away. Locked. I hit the CTRL-ALT-DEL and it asks for a password. I have one shot and go with a series of early go-to passwords for mid-1990s Omaha - BIGRED, GOBIGRED, HUSKERS123 - It works! I'm in!
There is my Winpop. My terrible, ugly, mean, Winpop.
Click. Gone.
My palms get sweaty just thinking about it. That day, I vowed to always double check before sending. Make myself pause, re-read, and then send again. It's saved me multiple times.
Until yesterday.
At least that email is just to my Mom.
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