“What do you want out of life?" I asked, and I used to ask that all the time of girls.
"I don't know," she said. "Just wait on tables and try to get along." She yawned. – "On the Road" Jack Kerouac

What do you want out of life?
Great question. Often the answer is "it depends." It depends on what my family is doing, what my neighbors are doing, what my peers are doing, or what I notice on my way to work. As life goes on, the answers change. It may still be "it depends," but as time ticks along we learn to filter our wants through our past because we won't do this or that again.
Then, we get where we are and have what we got. When asked how we arrived here, a narrative develops. Looking back, this led to that, and 3 was followed by 4. It's hard to remember the non-decision decisions made along the way, let alone why we wanted the things we sought from life along the way.
This is why it's best to keep the future at a high level of abstraction. "I want to end up happy, surrounded by family," or "I want to end up rich, surrounded by the trappings of wealth." Broad sentiments give you wiggle room. The philosophical among us might call this adhering to principles. (as Groucho Marks said, “Those are my principles, and if you don't like them...well I have others.”)
What we want out of life will change over time. The fates make sure of that. Regardless, it's still a best practice to think about what we want from our spin around this world every once in a while. Especially with the businesses we run because what we wanted from it five years ago is probably not the same as what we'll want five years from now.
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